• NO (or red) means NO. An absence of a yes is a NO.  If you are told NO one time, STOP ASKING. (This applies to Tops and bottoms, and all genders.) No one owes you an explanation of why they said NO. No is a complete sentence requiring NO justification.
  • RESPECT!!! People, pronouns, personal space, identity, sexuality and all club rules! 
  • Keep personal gear in designated storage areas.
  •  Toys are very important items and quite personal items.  Touching someone’s toys is not a good idea unless you are sure they do not mind. “Borrowing” toys which are “lying around” is exceptionally bad etiquette. The club has toys available for use!  
  • Personal hygiene is important, we have bathrooms available to freshen up if necessary. Baby wipes are excellent for a wipe down after an especially intense scene! 
  • Keep scents and scented products to a minimum, many people have sensitivities. 
  • Clean up after yourself. If you have a snack or drink, put trash in the trash and empty cans/bottles in recycling. Clean up play space and dungeon equipment after using. Use sanitary medical wipes provided if necessary. 
  • If you see a scene going on, avoid disrupting it. Be discrete when viewing scenes. Be conscientious when having conversations to keep your volume reasonable. 
  • Make room for aftercare! 
  • Use common sense! If you’re not sure, ask! 😀